MODE of Cosmic Therapy Esoteric Psychological Adult Education

Why is change so difficult? For most people, making major changes in their lives (environment/relationships) makes for a difficult and unsettling period. The reason being: attachment to the familiar activities, along with the people, places, friends and family which have constituted one’s world thus far, increases the probability of not wanting to let go. But change is inevitable and without it, the pain endured by trying to remain unmoved is almost unbearable, growing in intensity with each day endured.

Nothing remains the same. Try as we might, we can not continue to live in an unaltered world. Chaos is part of dissolving our so-desired pristine worlds. Chaos fosters the creative change so vitally needed in our day to day living. In all actuality, people don’t change; seasons do. And, when the season of change is upon us, we are powerless in the face of it. To surrender totally remains the only option IF we are too prevent the extended abysmal stay in hell, associated.

In order to stay alive, we must destroy the food we eat by consuming it (by the destructive process of assimilation). IF we left it in an untouched form by not digesting it (having it changed into the chemical composition we need), we would literally starve to death. So, too must we participate in the process of the destroying elements in our lives (change) in order to remain living, fully. We can only procrastinate, hide, deny and resist but so long then, “creation of the new” demands our response, with or without, our approval.

Escape, used as avoidance, is not an option. We must face the continuing discordant chorus in the ballad written in the songs of our particular lives. Harmonic resonance- in the melody- could not be appreciated, without the various dissonance included. What most often happens, though, is that we want and try to see the benefit before we take the journey. We demand to know the reasoning behind the disruption beforehand, which often (if ever) does not reveal itself.

We as human beings seek pleasure and try to avoid pain in as much as is possible. We desire our choices to be one of preference. We want to feel ‘good’ about what we’re doing; or at the very least, derive a sense of purposeful direction of necessity. The problem arises when we need too much. To PONDER what can’t possibly be revealed before it is time brings with it undo anxiety and discontent. Because we all possess the basic drive for continued nurturance, guidance and protection, we don’t like being in the dark, stumbling in the void, without verifiable answers.

It's happening as part of the air we breathe.

We are part of the world that is continually changing.

Change places us in the awkward, uncomfortable, unprotected position of being ‘on guard’ waiting for the ax to fall. In reality, there is no need for added protection when change comes a-calling. What we are really dealing with is: disguised paranoia. We misinterpret the situation and react to it as something necessary in order to adjust to the change without losing our so-called grounded footing.

But, unfortunately, we are doing nothing except fooling ourselves by designing an elaborate story in which we may maneuver more contentedly, until at such time we find our once familiar rhythm. Remember the old adage: “Thou doest resist a little too much”? When the cherished ‘clung to’ situation has obviously changed around us, while we still try to maintain a semblance of supposed order, the ground will shift even more abruptly, in order to shake us out of our preferred sleep.

In other words, the unwarranted paranoia is unfounded and defunct. Nothing occurs has occurred or ever will occur that is not precisely and exactly what the sacred hour of provision calls for. If we but remember, life’s changes are not designed to annihilate but to germinate. Our permission, validation, acceptance and approval will not be sought. The season has changed and we must move with it.

Our manipulative tactics, (of trying to win, get the best shot, the biggest advantage) will not prove fruitful or beneficial. Like water being changed into ice; though the molecular structure has been altered the chemical composition remains the same. And, so too, are we in the process of peeling back another layer to our ‘yet to be discovered’ seeded potential.

Unfortunately, sprouting new seeds is the LAST thing people want to do. We all realize that in any luscious flower garden, unwanted weeds pop up. Most of us do not want to find and eliminate the pestering parasites, attached. What parasites? (Self-doubt, fear, anxiety, guilt, regret, remorse, suspicion, powerlessness and loss of security) The real culprit, however, is our inability to realize and declare with full certainty that we don’t have a clue: we never have had an inkling of understanding of what is to be or for what divine reasons the various begetting circumstances (Involving every incomprehensible relationship) occurred.

IF there be divine reason, we will never know it; since the complexity of the extenuating tentacles, surrounding the involvement, is much too complicated and diverse for our finite minds to sort out, much less comprehend. So, acceptance remains our only recourse; a sublime sanctified resignation, if you will. We must surrender and acknowledge that it is futile and pointless to fight the inevitable. Whatever takes place unfolds for reasons we can’t see but is the ONLY possible way for the events (relationships) to have transpired or it wouldn’t be. It’s that simple and profound.

It's happening all the time.